Mumbai, Maharashtra, India
Hi,i have this secret and i dnt know with whom to share it..i've been having sex with my uncles for almost 4 years now,i m now engaged n gng to get married,n even though now i've decided to stop this,i just cant control myself,its like i enjoy having sex with them,and i've also slept with my fiance's dad..and i just cant seem to control it..all i thnk abt is sex whole day,i just end up sleeping with everyone..help me..|
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Halifax, NS, Canada
Sometimes I hate my life...I could have been so much more! Sometimes I dread getting up in the morning. occasionally I hate being married, I hate living here, but I really just hate my life.
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xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, New York, USA
Hi, I'm 14 and I have been raped twice, and have never told anyone but i need to get it off my chest the first time it was my math teacher and i had to stay after school and he forced me to have sex with him. The second time I was at a camp and this guy needed to talk to me and we went for a walk at about twelve and went deeper and deeper into the woods and then it happen again I have never told anyone this. I asking myself "why does this keep happening to me" "Am i really so stupid?"
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Glendale, Az, USA
I'm dating a married man 22 years older than me. I know that it's wrong...but he makes me happier than I've ever been. I love him. More than anyone in my life... I've lied to all my family and friends for over a year about him, and I'm tired of all the lying. I just want to be with him.
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Waiouru, Waiouru, New Zealand
He got had me addicted to gambling and drugs..he mentally and physically abused me..he tried to kill me and ended up putting me on crutches for 3 months, But I still love him 2 years later.
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Madison, Wisconsin, USA
We've been together about 3.5 years and for 2.5 years he's just made me feel hurt, helpless and small. I'd give anything to go back to the first year. I'd give anything to get up the courage to leave.
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West Midlands, England
I've fallen in love with a boy I met on the internet. We speak as often as we can, sometimes for up to six hours. I stay up all night talking to him leaving me incredibly moody from lack of sleep, but it makes me even more depressed when I don't get to speak to him. He's the only person in the world I feel completely comfortable talking about anything with. He makes me feel beautiful, he listens to me, I spend all my time thinking about him when we're not talking. I think he feels the same about me, he tells me he loves me. I hate that we can't be together, I hate that I don't live in South Dakota.
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
I slept with one of my oldest friend's boyfriend, twice when they were together and once after they broke up. She confronted me about it, I lied. sorry.
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Toledo, Ohio, USA
I cheated on my husband.. He never found out and I dont feel guilty for it because I believe I found true love and equal companionship with the man I cheated with. He said he felt it too. It was like we were meant to be together, but I am married with a child and he has a girlfriend. We came to the conclusion together that we could only be friends and we struggle to suppress our attraction and need for each other. Later this same year my husband cheated very publicly. I am too scared to end the marriage because if i do and the man I truly love still wont be with me it might mean he doesnt really feel the same way I do about him. I dont even know what I am hanging onto by staying in this marriage. Sometimes I hate my husband but most of the time I feel so much pity for him. I wish he would die somedays but that would be far to painful for our son.
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Buffalo, NY, USA
Sometimes I wish I would get in an accident that would leave me in critical condition so that you will come running to my bed side saying that you were never so scared of losing me and that you'd never want to leave me again.
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Helena, Montana, USA
Yes, i lied, i'm probably bulimic.
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Baltimore, MD, USA
I went out on a date with him because I thought he seemed fun. I stayed with him because I was bored and it was better than nothing. I panicked when he told me he loves me, but I said it back. I'm only staying with him because I get home in a week and I don't want to give up the sex. It's good sex. I feel awful for leading him on like this, but I also know I won't stop. When did I become this person?
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Barrie, Ontario, Canada
I am in love with a man who I met when I was 19. At the time I didn't think him and I would ever be fit for eachother so I married another man. I could not get over my love for him and it led to a divorce. After the divorce he came back into my life for 3 days. I flew to meet him in his hometown. After our weekend together he saw me off at a train station so I could go visit my sister. He embraced me and said he would see me again soon. Than he disapeared from my life. It has been 2 years and I have not been able to make contact with him. Time has not healed my wound, I continue to ache for him everyday. He haunts my sleep and clouds my thoughts. If only I had beleived in us when the time was right. Our entire story is one that would sell any novel, but I can't find the sanity to write it without him. How long until my heart heals? God help me. Te amo mi amore.
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Wesport, CT, USA
I am in love with a guy who doesn't want a long distance relationship. It kills me and I think about him every single moment of every single day. I want to be with him now. I can't wait two years. Please love me. I want to tell you this, but I'm afraid you'll be afraid and feel pressured. But still, please John, please love me.
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Jackson, Mississippi,USA
I am sleeping with a 38 year old, father of 2. Our understanding from the beginning was that he was emotionally unavailable, yet sexually willing. Which was what I wanted. He has been close friends with my Dad for 20 years, knew me when I was born, and lived with us for a while thereafter. I'm starting to fall in love with him.
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Zambia, Zambia
i've a boyfriend but i'm afraid am falling for a close.we have kissed several times but no one knows.plz help me.
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Duluth, Georgia, USA
I slept with a married man. It kills me that I did it and I cant tell anyone about it. I feel so horrible.
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La, California, USA
I am gong to have sex for money...It seem as though it as my only option. I am certain I will loose people during this process. I am a virgin. and I am over iving my life for others...this is about me and what i need and what i need is money and for someone to realese me of this virginity thing.
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Concord, California, USA
I have been in love with my ex for over 10 years now but she has been in love with another man for a little under 10 years now and she told me they were going to get married. She was my first and only love (even though we didnt have sex) and I have remained a virgin because I cant see myself with anyone else. I tried dating but it feels like Im cheating even though my ex has encouraged it. I really want to have sex as well just not with anyone other than her.
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Concord, California, USA
I feel Im surrounded by people whom are either leechs, evil or dont have the capacity to understand. Everytime I want to tell someone how I really feel I realize it will make them uncomfortable so I push it back down. Ive tried to seek psychological help many of times yet again more disappointment and wasted time. Im good at making money yet because of my physical and mental issues Ill never enjoy it. The only reason I have to live is so the lives of the hundreds of people that I have professional and personal relationships with can go on uninterrupted. My family has been a huge disappointment beyond what most could imagine. Im just healthy enough to live in great physical pain everyday but not healthy enough to do anything enjoyable. My life is torture and it is beginning to seem more logical to end my life. Instead of pain, anxiety, emotional distress and repeated disappointment there could be the end and nothing, no pain, no hope just nothing. I guess I finally lost all hope.
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Pittsburgh, PA, USA
My husband recently told me that he's been refusing to have sex with me because of things I've said during arguments in the past. He said it was easier to use porn because it was emotionless. It has been a long time since we've been intimate. He claims that he still finds me sexually attractive, but cannot get beyond the things I've said to him in the past. I feel lonely in my marriage. I crave intimacy and nothing I do seems to earn his forgiveness. I cry every morning after he leaves for work. I feel guilty and awful. He constantly rejects my advances. I'm ashamed that this has caused my self-esteem and sense of sexuality to suffer. I'm afraid to look at or become friends with other men out of fear that I might act on an impulse to have an affair. Not being wanted by my husband has brought me to very dark places in my mind, like suicide.
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Kansas City, KS, USA
I have feelings for my best friend, and she for me, and we both know it. I've known her for 5 years and we've had two opportunities where one asked the other out but we had to say no. Now we're both single, but we're also roommates, and my other best friend happens to be her ex-boyfriend who is still in love with her. How is it that dating someone who makes me feel so fantastic could lead to so many terrible outcomes?
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Grand Rapids, MI, USA
i tend to lie about small things, but i also lie to the people i love. i've been lying to my boyfriend about a medical complication my dad has. i tell my boyfriend its worse than it is, i feel like i can't come clean about it because his mother passed away a few years ago so i don't know if i can be forgiving for lying about something like that. i love him, he's my best friend and he knows everything about me except for this lie.
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Elderton, PA, USA
I have known a guy for 11 years and been dating him for 2. Wev been fighting a lot and my school closed so i am taking my senior year at another school where i met a guy who is the complete opposite of the guy im with. He is hard working sweet, caring, and incredibly attractive... but he has a girlfriend. Yesterday we went on a school trip and after spending the day together we ended up kissing on the bus. I think i may be in love with him but do not think im worth him leaving the girl hes with and my boyfriend has threatened to kill himself if i left. When i got home my boyfriend called and i told him i loved him. This may have been a lie. I am so confused and torn to the point of depression. What kind of person would i be if i left a boy i have so much history with to be with a known player that i didnt even know existed until two months ago?
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Denver, Colorado, USA
I told my parents I quit cutting 2 months ago. Actually, I'm worse than ever...and I don't want to stop. The only thing that keeps my secret is the fact that it's cold here and my pillow has a secret pocket. I'll never be the same again...I'll never be whole..I doubt I'll ever be loved. (NOTE: Please help her)
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Syracuse, New York,USA
I just cut myself. I haven't cut in months. Too much stress and despair. I want to commit suicide. I want to die. (Please help her.)
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Brooklyn, New York,USA
I realised today that i am in love with one of my best friends. Thing is, I would never admit it to anyone because they'd think it's stupid that I don't just tell him. I've never felt this way before and if I'm honest, it scares me. alot. the intensity that overwhemles me sometimes gives me this weird feeling in my stomach and I don't know if its just fear. how am I supposed to know what love is though, if I don't know if he loves me back? I don't think he does.
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Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
My best friend's brother revealed that he loves me. I can't love him back because I was in love with his sister. And she loved me back.
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Winter Park, FL, USA
I have a huge a crush on a boy in one of my classes; I find him incredibly attractive, and am attracted to him, even though I can't quite put my finger on why. Most people probably wouldn't find him to be that good-looking, but I do. I've never felt this way before. He has no idea that I exist, and I doubt he even knows my name. What should I do? I'm too shy to talk with him, and it would be weird since the only thing we have in common is being in the same class.
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Orlando, FL, USA
I might be in love with two of my best friends. This is a problem in and of itself, but to add to it, one is a guy and one is a girl. Oh, and they might have a crush on each other.
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Columbus, Ohio, USA
Hey Kelley, I saw you for the first time in six months last Saturday at the homecoming dance. I went to talk to you and you called me a dick and walked away. You know what I did? I went home and masturbated to your yearbook photo. Page 172. You may always have the hateful memories of me, but I will always have your face whenever I might need it.
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Corpus Christi, Texas, USA
I was in a great relationship that turned terrible, harmful, and painful. I got out of it, thank goodness, two years ago. I act normal, but it has continued to haunt me. I've been to counseling but i have flashbacks and panic attacks. I hide these from my friends, family, and work so I can fit in. I especially dont want to lose my job or jeopardize my standing there, because i need to support myself. I'd been dealing well for a while lately, but next weekend i have a friend's wedding and my fears and hurt have been rushing back. My ex and I had planned to marry, but just thinking about marriage and commitment now make me sick with fear. I dont know if I'm jealous, or traumatized, or cynical, or a little of everything, but I hate to even think of weddings and I dont know how i will make it through hers and act happy for her. Getting married and having kids was always my dream and I hope I still do someday. I hope i dont get too old for that to happen.
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Tampa, Florida, USA
I love this guy and i think he likes me too but i am too shy to tell him any thing,i mean he asked me to dance yesterday in his party and hold my hand i don't know what to do how i am supposed to tell him that i am in love with him!!! plz help me.
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Sydney, New South Wales, Australia
I have held this secret for years.....And im to afraid to tell my family and friends, cause I know that I will be looked down on! The only ones that understand how I feel are the ones like me. Sometimes I wonder why Im like this. Why cant I just be normal. I have been living a lie and its killing me! I have someone very close to me and only he knows that I AM GAY!
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Chicago, IL, USA
My bestfriend had a party last night at her house and when people get drunk there is alot of kissing and grabbing, which everyone is fine with. I was making out with her husband secrelty and when she went to bed we had sex in the living room. Yeah, we went alittle too far....
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Otago, New Zealand
I fell in love with a guys older than me and lost my virginity to him at the age of 15. He was a sweet talker and i tought he was caring, only to find out a year later that he lied to me and was with another girl for 2 years. The thing is it's been 6 months since we last saw each other and im still not over him, I even made a fake facebook account just so that i can stalk both him and his gf. Im starting to feeling addicted to it, i go on every day just to see their pictures, what they do and where they go. I still love him and im scared to run into them somewhere but at the same time i want to. I want to be his girl on a side whenever he feels lonely to come to me. IM ADDICTED TO HIM and im scared to do something stupid ill regret. Can someone please help! Im only 16 and nobody knows anything about him and im scared to tell my mum because she'll be angry at me. PLEASE HELP!
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Medellin, Antioquia, Colombia
Most of the time I want to kill myself, I have done so much things that make me feel sad and without chances in life, sometimes I feel that I don't deserve more opportunities. I have a wonderful mom and family that love me, but I feel that they are too good for me. I don't have strength for do what my family want for me. Also, I am not sure about what I want for my future. they give me the opportunities for reach my goals but I don't have any.I like somethings but I can work on them. Please, Help Me!
PLEASE HELP THIS WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING! RESPOND TO HER CRY. SHE IS TOO GOOD TO SUFFER!!!
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Worcestershire,England
I have a boyfriends, and im very much in love and happy with him. BUT ive also been in love with another boy for 5-6 years, he knows it but he doesnt want to get involved with me. He used to be my best friend, proper tell-them-everything-do-everything-together best friend, now he doesnt speak to me... Just as i was starting to get over him a few months ago he kissed me, he said he regretted it, but then last week just as we'd gotten over the whole awkwardness he kissed me again, and tried to take it further but i didnt, and now we're back to not speaking, my boyfriend knows that it happened, and he forgave me, i dont deserve a boy like him. But i dont know how to get over the other boy.
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London, England
I've never told anyone about the abuse from my dad. I hate him for what he did to me and he was alcoholic too, asking me if he could kill himself so he wouldnt feel guilty...i had to watch him self harm when i was 10 and now i drink all the time to forget it and im not able to be in a relationship because of him.. and even though he's dead now, i dont cry because he died.. its because of what he did to me when i was 13. my life is so shit.. i cant take it anymore.
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Paris, France
I think about him everyday and I hate it ! He's my sister's ex-boyfriend and I'm too shy, not confident and scared to say that I like him... It's so hard to have feelings for somebody..
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New York, New York, USA
I am gay and I had a boyfriend, but he left me. I am torn. I feel like I should kill myself... To save him the trouble. I am so scared.
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New Castel, Blyth, United Kingdom
I have a secret, i recently found out i have an older brother. We met for the first time and ended up having sex, i am so ashamed and i no i shouldnt have done it. It could ruin everything and im scared my family will hate me for it, the thing is i dont actually regret what we did, just the fact he is my brother. now i come from a relativly normal family and never done anything like this b4. It happened more than once and in the same house as our family, now he is acting strange but he says he doesnt regret what happened one bit. I dont want to lose him as my brother but we carnt carry on, its fucking up my head. Im so scared people will find out and losing my family. Im so confused! I know what we did was wrong but we carnt stop. What should i do? Please help me!!! Im not a bad person, its like we are not related, we were not bought up together im not using this as an excuse, just trying to explain things to myself.
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Boston, Massachusetts, USA
If you weren't dating her And if I wasn't dating him And if our ages didn't make it socially unacceptable And if you didn't live in Canada I would tell you how I really felt about you. But you are And I am And it is And you do So I never will. I love you and always will.
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Dallas, Texas, USA
The only thing that stopped me from killing myself when i was 15 was the fact that you'd be grieving over your daughter instead of me grieving over my dead boyfriend. i'd rather suffer than know that you will be suffering. i am now 16 and it has been almost a year. i don't want to die. i love you, mom.
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Tonronto, Ontario, Canada
I have a step sister and when im home alone my favorite thing to do is go into her closet and put on her clothes. I dress as a girl even have msn for Ashley (my girl name). I have gone out and met people at the clubs and passed as a girl and loved it sex with a guy is the best. Also while wearing my sisters clothes I had two guys that I met online over and we had a 3 way. I love crossdressing and I love gay sex but I would never dare come out to my family.
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Danville, Illinois,USA
I was abused by my father for 18 yrs. He physically and mentally abused me. I have 3 siblings that were also abused. My two older sisters were sexually abused in addition to the other abuse. I struggle every day with depression and alot of other problems because I can't get over my past. I also have a bed wetting problem that I got abused for too. My life is such a mess because I haven't gotten to deal with my anger and other issues. There is not a day that goes by that I don't wish I was dead. I have 4 kids and they keep me going. Otherwise, I might end up like my 3 uncles who all committed suicide. My family is messed up on both sides. Of course my dad was an alcoholic and that made him even meaner. I just hope that God can get me through this so I can have a better life than what I have now. If not, then what's the point of living?
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Caledonia, MI, USA
When my parents yell at me over something dumb, which they do often because of their anger issues and OCD problems, I like to get back at them by spending money. I'll go and buy whatever I want. Because they are so thrifty, me spending money is a way to get back at them for being so unreasonable toward me.
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Glenview, Illinois, USA
I just got a blowjob from a transexual. I thought I would enjoy it cus they kinda turn me on but it was the most unsatisfying experience of my life. I wish so much I could go back an hour and not do it. FUCK. I've been sufficiently scared into being straight again.
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Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA
One of my most embarrassing secrets is that I had a secretive love affair last summer...with another guy. We kissed a few times but mostly I just gave him several headjobs over the summer. I had never given another guy a headjob before then and did not know that I enjoyed it sooo much. That guy is now back in my area because he has returned from college. I really hope I can start sucking him off regularly again. It is embarrassing to admit it but I really want him to deep-throat me repeatedly.
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Lahore, Punjab, Pakistan
When I went to the college, I set my eyes on a girl whom I thought would be beyond my guts, I just wished what it would feel like to have her, next week she called me and we got together, and to my surprise she had the same thoughts about me and thought I would never go for her, useless to tell that I did. She has the most perfect, clean & flawless body. When I kissed her I felt like I was drugged, it was so good. I would lick everything on her body for hours and it just got better. Although we broke up but I can never forget her.
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Ortonville, MI, USA
I want you to be happy, but right now, I wish you were dead. It would be easier to cope with you being dead than knowing that you're now dating someone else. Like I said, I want you to be happy, but the path you have chosen makes me unhappy. I want you back. I need you back. And I'll never find anyone in my entire lifetime who I can or will ever love, as much as I loved you. Even though we have no contact now, I still think of you all the time. I still look at the pictures of us together and wish that I had the time back to show you how much you mean to me. Rebekah Kathleen Cook, you are the only person I want in my life. I'm sorry if I messed up our relationship. And I hope that you read this secret, and can see for yourself how sorry I am and how wrong I was in everything I did. I am now dating someone else too, but if you came back to me, I would leave her in a split second just to be with you. I can't believe I messed up my life so badly. I wear the necklace you gave me, everyday.
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Winston-Salem, NC, USA
I have been in a secret relationship with my best friend for 2 years. No one knows, not our friends nor our families. Now she's been dating a guy publicly, but she's still with me. I love her infinitely, but now she's having sex with him, and he's falling in love with her. I've heard them before. I'm in agony and I have no one to talk to. I'm afraid I might explode. I wish she could just be with me. She says she loves me, but she can't be with me publicly right now. So in the mean time, I have to watch her with someone else, holding his hand, kissing him, flirting with him. Who else in the world has to silently sit by while the person she loves is with someone else? Who else lives in the room next door to their love, and has to hear her giving herself to someone else? I only keep on living to stay close to her, but my life has become constant agony and suffering, and I only feel like I am alive when we are alone together. I love her so much it hurts.
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Sierra Vista, AZ, USA
I miss my ex I miss him so much I cry every night we still have sex but I feel no love or care.
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Norwood, MA, USA
I hate myself for letting myself be weak, I hate my husband and son. I hate my husband because I had an abortion he did not want another son with me. So I went along with it. Since then we have two wonderful boys and I have a daughter from another relationship she is a wonderful child. My husband's son from previous marriage makes my life a living hell. I hate my husband for having him with his slut mother I hate feeling like this.
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Ontario, Canada
I've cut myself for about a year now, mainly on my thighs, because it helps me cope with pain.. no one knows. A couple months ago I cut my arms severley after a fight with my parents. I've been hiding the scars all along, but my friend's are wondering why I'm wearing long sleeved shirts in the summer and I have to wear a dress for prom in 2 weeks. I hate myself for what I have done to my body, I look like a mess and now I will be marked up for life. I've been so stressed out with this that I've been making myself purge after eating, I am disgusted with how I look. I'm also pretty sure I'm bi-sexual, even leaning towards girls but I know that no one would accept me if I said anything. I always get pissed off when I hear about people cheating, but I cheated on my first boyfriend twice but have never told him. fccccck. :'(
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Austin, TX, USA
I dated my best friend a few years back and fell in love with him. but i made the mistake of cheating on him and breaking up with him, because my life took a horrible turn. i regret that more than anything. he is now dating one of my close friends, and he thinks i am ok with it. the truth is, i still love him more than i even know. the only reason why i can keep my mouth shut is because i want him to be happy.
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New Plymouth, Taranaki, New Zealand
I'm still in love with Anna. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and I just want to be with her forever. But she can't ever ever know.
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Houston, TX, USA
I'm in a relationship for 3 years my partner cant make any progress to be together cause he lives with his mom which she is controling and dont like me and he listen to her he is mome's boy he is 55 years old dont know if its a good idea to break up with him all his excuse is that he can't handel us together in one house and he is waitin for his mom to pass away she is 76 years old and very healthy he loves me very much but i dont know to to do.
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Denver, Colorado, USA
I slept with a friend of mine whom I considered a brother three years ago. We are still friends and the other night while we were talking, our time together was brought up. He thought I had regretted it and I thought the same of him. He wants a "redo" because we were both drunk the first time. Now I'm starting to think that maybe I have some different feelings for him. I'm so confused.
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Austin, TX, USA
I dated my best friend a few years back and fell in love with him. but i made the mistake of cheating on him and breaking up with him, because my life took a horrible turn. i regret that more than anything. he is now dating one of my close friends, and he thinks i am ok with it. the truth is, i still love him more than i even know. the only reason why i can keep my mouth shut is because i want him to be happy.
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Santa Monita, CA, USA
I believe I'm a gorgeous girl, I hear it all the time. But not from him.
